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FireBlast
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posted 03-02-2003 03:26 AM $Profile for FireBlast$ $Author's Homepage$ $Email FireBlast$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

Well, she goes to my class and first off let me start by saying that she is the hottest girl I have ever met, for real. Anyway, for the last couple of months we've been talking on the phone everyday for about an hour and we even went to catch a movie a few times, but I always thought of us as just friends. Recently though, I've started realizing that I have serious feelings for her because, looks aside, she is one of the smartest most interesting people I know. There's only one problem...

She smokes like a chimney...

Now, I'm not one of those people who have a problem with idiots who smoke, just don't do it next to me cause it disgusts the living shit outa me. Seriously, up until I met her I never even wanted to be around people who smoke but when I'm with her I can somehow stand it. We talk about it a lot and she really does want to quit, which is the most disturbing part of all. Almost every week she tries to but the most she ever lasted so far was four days, and usually she breaks within 1-2 days. Now this is ok for me since everytime she starts smoking again she comes to me and gives me a huge hug and about a million kisses because she knows she dissapointed me, but while that feels great I really would like to see her stop smoking since it's such a disgusting habit. I would have asked her to be my girlfriend if it wasn't for that... I seriously have no idea what to do.

Also, I have no idea why I'm posting this here since I hardly ever post at all and the best I could hope for are some tl;dr replies or whatever hip internet slang you guys use these days. But if someone has a serious opinion and/or expreience with such a subject I would very much like to hear him out.

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posted 03-02-2003 03:37 AM $Profile for Anthrax$ $Author's Homepage$ $Email Anthrax$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

Get over it. She has to quit on her own, you can't stop her.

Also don't dump her or anything just because she smokes. I'd have to laugh at you if you did that.

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posted 03-02-2003 03:44 AM $Profile for cfalcon$ $Email cfalcon$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

Ok, I find smoking so absurdly unsexy as to be embarrassing. I would never want to date or marry a smoker.

However-

You're already stuck, buddy. You already want her. Just fucking date her and don't worry about the smoking thing. If you are (a) dating her in three years AND (b) she still smokes, then you can start worrying.

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FireBlast
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posted 03-02-2003 03:47 AM $Profile for FireBlast$ $Author's Homepage$ $Email FireBlast$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

Yeah, but other than the fact that it's really unhealthy for both her and me (when I'm around her), there's the slight problem that kissing a girl who smokes is like wrapping your tongue around a furnace.

Also, wrapping my tongue around a furnace is not something I wish to do.

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posted 03-02-2003 03:59 AM $Profile for Anthrax$ $Author's Homepage$ $Email Anthrax$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

You're not gonna get emphesyma from hanging around with this girl for a few hours a week.

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posted 03-02-2003 04:48 AM $Profile for Ikuse$ $Author's Homepage$ $Email Ikuse$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

Bone her! Bone her all day long! That's what I'd do, anyways.

I'd bone that shit til it was raw and sore.

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posted 03-02-2003 10:09 AM $Profile for Psybro$ $Email Psybro$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

Tell her that if she carries on smoking you'll beat her like the whore that she is.

Hopefully this will both stop her smoking, and turn her on.

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posted 03-02-2003 10:33 AM $Profile for maagisk$ $Author's Homepage$ $Email maagisk$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

You wouldn't belive how nasty it is kissing a girl that smokes, I ended up stuffing my jaws with breath mints.

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posted 03-02-2003 10:40 AM $Profile for Mick_Hale$ $Email Mick_Hale$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

I dated a smoker once. She was my first girlfriend. I didn't know she smoked. If I knew, I would have dumped her before she cheated on me, multiple times.

I tend to try and not make friends with smokers. I'm a bit of an elitist schmuck that way. I try to hang around people with brains, and those that smoke (to me at least) are lacking brains. My second girlfriend stopped smoking after I told her I'd never kiss her again. She hasn't smoked since, and in fact she hates the stench of smoke, but we broke up several months later and we're still pretty good friends.

I doubt I'd ever date a smoker again, and my friends that do smoke are well aware of how adamantly against smoking I am. If you want her to quit, use the "I'm not gonna kiss you" method. It generally works quite well, especially if she really digs you. If she's serious about quitting, then help her along. Being an asshole and telling her that she reeks of tobacco may work quite well. Just my two cents on the issue. Good luck.

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posted 03-02-2003 11:33 AM $Profile for Boodabonzi$ $Email Boodabonzi$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

quote:
Originally posted by Psybro:
Tell her that if she carries on smoking you'll beat her like the whore that she is.

Hopefully this will both stop her smoking, and turn her on.

not everyone's mormon you know

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posted 03-02-2003 01:02 PM $Profile for Badcrow$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

Whip your cock out, bitches dig that shit.

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Cesar
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posted 03-02-2003 01:26 PM $Profile for Cesar$ $Email Cesar$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

I have a few friends which smoke. Only one is a real heavy smoker. He isn't a chimney or a furnace, the man is a bloody tabbaco plant. He smokes more then what stores can stock up on.

Now that I think about it, after he offered me some, he really isn't much of a 'friend'.

Back to your situation:
I was read an article on the newspaper a year or two ago about a woman who was heavy smoker and wanted to quit. Her solution was to buy the cheapest smokes money can buy and smoked, constantly. Eventually the woman got so sick, she stopped.

I wouldn't recommend it, by now I willing to bet she died of every cancer smoking comes with.

But your friend is making progress, at least she's trying which is good enough. Eventually she'll stop, and if not, there is always shock therpy.

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posted 03-02-2003 01:56 PM $Profile for Dweedle$ $Email Dweedle$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

quote:
Originally posted by Mick_Hale:
I dated a smoker once. She was my first girlfriend. I didn't know she smoked. If I knew, I would have dumped her before she cheated on me, multiple times.

lol double whammy

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SDShamshel
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posted 03-02-2003 02:24 PM $Profile for SDShamshel$ $Email SDShamshel$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

You named yourself after a Pokemon attack and are asking for advice on a Pokemon messageboard.

Think about that.

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posted 03-02-2003 03:45 PM $Profile for Rolken$ $Author's Homepage$ $Email Rolken$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

quote:
Originally posted by cfalcon:
Ok, I find smoking so absurdly unsexy as to be embarrassing. I would never want to date or marry a smoker.

If she's serious about it, why doesn't she go the patch route or something along those lines? Complications?

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posted 03-02-2003 03:51 PM $Profile for starCaliber$ $Email starCaliber$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

this thread is excellent.

cfalcon: Just fucking date her and don't worry about the smoking thing. If you are (a) dating her in three years AND (b) she still smokes, then you can start worrying.

quite possibly the most easy to execute piece of advice ever given out in the history of this forum.

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ReturnofNumeroUno
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posted 03-02-2003 07:32 PM $Profile for ReturnofNumeroUno$ $Email ReturnofNumeroUno$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

Don't worry, you've got a good 40 years to spend with her before she gets cancer.

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posted 03-03-2003 03:50 AM $Profile for Ancient Egyptian Cat-Gonk$ $Author's Homepage$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

quote:
Originally posted by Badcrow:
Whip your cock out, bitches dig that shit.

whip that shit out
no doubt about it
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FireBlast
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posted 03-03-2003 03:00 PM $Profile for FireBlast$ $Author's Homepage$ $Email FireBlast$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

Some of you tend to look at the health issues as if they were everything like saying that "I won't get emphysema from being around her a few hours" or that "I have 40 years with her before she gets cancer" and neglect the fact that it completely grosses me out.

I doubt that saying "I won't kiss you if you smoke" would work... Everytime she tries to quit and doesn't manage she gets so depressed and self-hating, which makes me think that it's not voluntary and that she just gets dragged right in. She's been smoking for 3-4 years now so it's hard for her to just quit cold-turkey. I'm considering buying her patches or some shit... I hope it's not too expensive though, I don't have any money.
You need to understand, it's not like she smokes when she's around me... But we're just friends now so it doesn't matter. If we begin a relationship or something then I'll have to be around her more, plus I'll have to kiss her which I already did once or twice and believe me, it wasn't pretty.

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posted 03-03-2003 03:10 PM $Profile for starCaliber$ $Email starCaliber$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

FireBlast: plus I'll have to kiss her

oh you poor fuckin baby.

honestly...wtf...wtF. christ, kids.

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FireBlast
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posted 03-03-2003 03:12 PM $Profile for FireBlast$ $Author's Homepage$ $Email FireBlast$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

lol, I think it was pretty much explained that kissing girls who smoke sucks, right? Did you miss that?

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posted 03-03-2003 03:44 PM $Profile for Dweedle$ $Email Dweedle$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

Nicorette

the patch

etc.

[ 03-03-2003, 03:45 PM: Message edited by: Dweedle ]

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posted 03-03-2003 04:08 PM $Profile for Cloud9x$ $Author's Homepage$ $Email Cloud9x$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

pics plz

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posted 03-03-2003 04:56 PM $Profile for Slade_64$ $Email Slade_64$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

preferably scanned boobies plz

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posted 03-03-2003 04:59 PM $Profile for cfalcon$ $Email cfalcon$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

oh you poor fuckin baby.

Imma have to give sC the nod here: I think that in 5-20 years you'll think you were a stupid kid if you don't at least try.

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cfalcon: Just fucking date her and don't worry about the smoking thing. If you are (a) dating her in three years AND (b) she still smokes, then you can start worrying.

True. Smokers don't get ugly or yellow teeth till they get in their 30's. Teen smokers only have bad breath. Though some people look sex while smoking a cigarette. Nothing to worry about now, even if you plan to make this thing last don't worry about it now. Worry about it later.

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posted 03-04-2003 10:15 AM $Profile for Face$ $Author's Homepage$ $Email Face$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

Se><0r her up.

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posted 03-04-2003 11:14 AM $Profile for Badcrow$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

Your cock won't realize she's got bad breath.

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posted 03-04-2003 02:27 PM $Profile for Fractyl$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

quote:
Originally posted by Badcrow:
Your cock won't realize she's got bad breath.

tar stains

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Badcrow
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posted 03-04-2003 02:36 PM $Profile for Badcrow$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

Only if she's smoking while sucking.

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posted 03-04-2003 08:31 PM $Profile for Donald$ $Email Donald$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

Smoking during any sexual act = wrong, and a SERIOUS turn-off.

Though after it... [Razz]

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Badcrow
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posted 03-04-2003 09:22 PM $Profile for Badcrow$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

Why are pubes curly instead of straight? If they were straight they'd poke her eyes out.

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Manuel Calavera
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posted 03-06-2003 05:23 PM $Profile for Manuel Calavera$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

quote:
Originally posted by Badcrow:
Why are pubes curly instead of straight? If they were straight they'd poke her eyes out.

Because they're (almost always) underneath clothing. And as an experiment, see what your partner thinks if you have dreadlocked pubes.

quote:
Originally posted by Donald:
Smoking during any sexual act = wrong, and a SERIOUS turn-off.

Though after it...

What if it's one of those tricks where she puts it in her ear and it comes out her fadge?

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posted 03-06-2003 05:26 PM $Profile for FireBlast$ $Author's Homepage$ $Email FireBlast$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

This is the best day ever. Jesus, I swear... Sometimes I'm just so fucking lucky...

So we both rented Minority Report on DVD and went to my house (which was empty) and began watching it. We sit really close to eachother and my arms are around her, but all in a very friendly fashion because she stated earlier that she was cold.

So about 20 minutes after the movie started she puts her mouth next to my ear and begins whisperring something like this: "I'm tired of waiting. What are you scared of me or something? I want to be your girlfriend." And I'm like "OMG" inside my head but I manage to pull myself together and say: "yeah sure. I've been wanting to be your boyfriend for a while now but I don't know how I feel about your constant smoking. We'll need to work on that." So she's like "yeah whatever" and we spend the rest of the movie sucking eachother's faces like there's no tomorrow.

And this is where it gets good. Really good. Before she left we made some sort of an agreement. it was her suggestion, I wouldn't have never thought of it myself. Every time she smokes I get to do whatever I want with her for 15 minutes. Whatever I want.

Man, this is the best day ever.

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quote:
Originally posted by FireBlast:
Every time she smokes I get to do whatever I want with her for 15 minutes. Whatever I want.

Get that crazy whore some shares in Marlboro.

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posted 03-06-2003 06:09 PM $Profile for Boodabonzi$ $Email Boodabonzi$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

Dude, by ''whatever you want'' she means ''whatever you want that involves buying me presents'' and not ''whatever you want that involves you invading my duodenum''. But I guess you could get lucky.

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posted 11-23-2015 07:59 PM $Profile for MewtwoSama$ $Author's Homepage$ $Email MewtwoSama$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

I told a friend I have feelings for her and she rejected me. [Trash Bear]

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posted 12-07-2015 05:45 AM $Profile for Mr.E$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

I've solved that problem by not having friends.

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posted 12-28-2015 03:58 PM $Profile for MewtwoSama$ $Author's Homepage$ $Email MewtwoSama$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

It's been over a month and it still hurts.

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posted 01-09-2016 03:51 AM $Profile for Mr. K$ $Author's Homepage$ $Email Mr. K$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

Did you explain to her that you're a Pokemon master?

We'll vouch for you.

Give us her phone number and we'll inundate her with tales of your pocket monster prowess.

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posted 08-18-2016 05:57 AM $Profile for mr k mouth$ $Author's Homepage$ $Email mr k mouth$ $Send New Private Message$ $Edit/Delete Post$ $Reply With Quote$

https://youtu.be/Ebdc7fOhyOY

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