1) i need a tm list , what they do , power , and where to find'em
I have links to a bunch of G/S stuff on my site. this should explain most of your questions
2)if a trade my r/b max stats starmie will starmie have max special defense?
yes, as i understand it, special defense and attack use the same DV
3)Will i be able to evolve my chansey to hapinasu? My chansey is alredy at level 100.
4)I need to know a good g/s site about pokemon breeding.
again, the above link will take you to some serious breeding FAQ
5)Will mew be able to learn all the g/s tms?
6)will my max stats hypno have max special?
same as starmie.
7)i need g/s codes to buy tms and to change some moves from my pokemons.
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